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The #1 Best-Selling Dating Book
Heartbreak-Free Dating



Jess Kennedy Williams
Author of the #1 Best-Selling Dating Book, Heartbreak-Free Dating

Jess has written a powerful, controversial book that challenges the current methods of dating and gives solid, to the point suggestions on how to change things for the better.


"When it comes to dating, listen to your gut instinct, not your heart. Your gut tries to protect you from getting hurt, your heart has no clue what it is doing."
-Jess Kennedy Williams

STOP THE DATING ROLLER COASTER
AND LET ME OFF!

Heartbreak Free Dating is for women who are tired of the current methods of dating and meeting men...women who are tired of being in dead end relationships that are going nowhere…….tired of feeling neglected and unfulfilled. It is time for women to take control of their relationships and change the ways of dating forever. This book will show you how to change the way you look at men as potential mates. If you are happy being single and are not looking for your soul mate, this book is not for you. If you want to find your soul mate and quit wasting your time in unfulfilling relationships, read on.

You Will Discover:

(1) What not to look for in a mate. This will surprise you.

(2) How to stop the vicious cycle of getting your heart broken.

(3) How to gain more self-reliance.

(4) The best way to go about finding Mr. Right.

(5) Why conventional methods of dating just do not work.

This revolutionary new way of looking at relationships is what society needs. The old ways of dating do not work and here is the solution to change it.

Isn’t it time to take control of your single life? Banish heartbreak forever by implementing the new rules for dating as outlined in this book.

If I am not worth the wooing, I am surely not worth the winning"
- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow


Excerpts From Chapters

  • Stuck in the Girlfriend Zone .....listen to your gut instinct and not your heart. Your gut tries to protect you from getting hurt, your heart has no clue what it is doing.
  • Where Not to Meet Mr. Right .......he is in a bar looking for different things than you are. There might be good guys there but, the majority are there looking to get lucky and you would be kidding yourself if you thought otherwise. Drinking enhances the lust factor and lowers inhibitions so I would say, they are looking in the right place for what they want. You are not.
  • Non-Dating: Changing the Future of Dating .......we need to change things so that sex is not expected when you first meet someone. Physical intimacy should be something sacred and special that two people who love each other share. In today's standards, it is just empty and hollow. No deep feelings needed here. Just pick someone, any one. You don't even have to know their name.
  • What do Men Want?.......the marriages I have seen last the longest are the ones where the guy says "it was love at first sight". Guys know. If your guy is not sure how he feels about you, move on. You cannot make him have feelings for you. Either it is right or it is not. No gray area here. Yes or no. Maybe is where heartache lives.
  • Releasing Your Inner Goddess.....once you get to the level where you are feeling confident and you know you are where you are supposed to be, you will feel a peace of mind that you have never known before. Go forth and let your light shine. You have never been so beautiful, because it is coming from the inside.
  • and much, much more...

Stop wasting time and emotions on
dead-end dating.

Learn how to "non-date." Get to know someone as friends to see if they have the potential of being your soul mate before you get physically and emotionally involved. It might not be easy to do, but it sure will be worth it in terms of saving yourself lots of heartache and tears.

"This book is a must read for all single women. Heartbreak-Free Dating reveals what women have known instinctively but have tried to deny:We are not satisfied with dead-end relationships and superficial flings. Try as we might to fit into the "boy's club" we cannot simply turn off our emotions and separate love from sex. We deserve to be loved and respected. If you are a single woman tired of the dating scene and ready to meet your soul mate, this book is for you"
Christina Rowe
Seven Secrets to a Successful Divorce
www.secretsofdivorce.com

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I Wish You all a Happy and Heartbreak-Free Life.


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Feature Article from Conscious Dating Singles News

DATING RED FLAGS

by RCI Coaches
(The opinions of other authors in this article are not necessarily the opinions of
Jess Kennedy Williams)

Red Flag #1: I Don’t Want to get Married (again)

Some single people say they don’t want to get married. I believe they have not met the right person yet. If you’re dating someone who says he or she doesn’t want to get married, listen closely. They might be telling you that you’re not the one for them. Don’t ignore it, or think you can change them.

If you’re in love with someone who doesn’t want to be married, you could be wasting your time and causing yourself unnecessary heartache. If you’re happy just dating this person, then by all means, stay where you are. If you want more out of the relationship than he or she is able to give, it’s time to consider moving on. This way you’ll be available when you meet the right person who can’t live without you.

Jess Kennedy Williams
www.HeartbreakFreeDating.com



Red Flag #2: Inappropriate Touching


Touching is a way of getting closer and more intimate with another person, and it will come as dating progresses. However, if you’re on a date with someone who touches you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, then tell him or her immediately. When it comes to your personal space, people need to be invited in. If they’re not invited, they need to leave. It's that simple. Someone who would touch you in such a manner, after you have asked them not to, should not be trusted. They are showing a lack of respect for you and are displaying behaviors that you should avoid. If they respect you and don’t touch you inappropriately again, he or she might have misread your signals, and perhaps, he or she deserves another chance. In any case, proceed with caution.

Jess Kennedy Williams
www.HeartbreakFreeDating.com



Red Flag #3: Inappropriate Conversation


I like to call this red flag "just add water intimacy." We live in a culture that has little tolerance for delayed gratification, and unfortunately, it’s no different in the dating community. It’s easy for singles to get into the "urge to merge" mode and speak before they think.

Launching into conversations that include intimate details with previous lovers, financial and emotional challenges, and a laundry list of what one is looking for in a relationship seldom sets the tone for getting to know the other person. One may think this behavior promotes intimacy, but instead it’s more like pseudo-intimacy, where you actually believe you know the person after an hour of conversation.

How would you initiate a conversation with a new friend? Take the time to get to know someone just as you would with anyone with whom you would like to develop a friendship. Ask about their interests, their work, and their life experiences. Be curious about their goals and dreams. After all, aren’t romantic relationships really the ultimate friendship?

Lois Barth, Coach 


Red Flag #4: Words and Behavior Aren’t Aligned

There are two ways to consider this red flag. First, humans are inconsistent and incongruent people. We say we want to lose weight and then we eat like crazy. In certain situations, some disconnect between words and actions is to be expected. At the same time, one of the ways we learn to trust someone is by looking at someone’s track record – that this person does what he or she says they are going to do, and with very few exceptions.

The important things to notice are their patterns over time. Does this person say one thing and do another? Does he or she make promises and then break them? Does this individual always place the blame for not coming through on someone or something else?

All of these things can be warning signs of a problem. Here’s the bottom line: If you have to choose between believing the words and believing the behavior, go with the behavior every time.

Jeff Herring, MS, LMFT


Red Flag #5: Jealous of Your Family and Friends

Jealousy is a major red flag. Your family and friends are a large part of who you are; they bring richness, variety, and support to you. I can’t see any way to win if your partner wants you to cut them out of your life. It’s true that your partner must come first, but a relationship that has no room for others—or only room for your partner’s others—leaves you isolated and vulnerable.

I once had a friend whose new husband insisted that she limit her contact with her parents. Ultimately, she was driven to sneaking around and calling them from work. Not only did this place a huge burden on her, but it also established a lack of honesty between the two of them—definitely not an ideal foundation for a lasting relationship.

A relationship that is not, at its heart, based on total honesty, openness, and support cannot survive. Even more so, it’s typical behavior for an abuser to isolate his or her spouse from their support system. If you see this red flag in your partner, run like crazy!

Sandra Rohr. MA

Red Flag #6: Addictions

Your partner might be addicted to drugs, alcohol, sex—or anything else. If your partner is addicted, he or she cares more about the addiction than about you. Living with an addicted partner is like living in a threesome: you, your partner, and the addiction, which, itself, takes on a life of its own.

In this threesome, you can never win. The addiction is always more seductive and more powerful than you or your partner. You’ll only have the leftovers. It is damaging and painful for you to come in as a distant third.

You deserve a partner who is whole, healthy, and able to give whole-heartedly to you and your relationship. Before committing to a partner, be sure that he or she is more in love with you than with something else.

Sandra Rohr. MA

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